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My life as a Dog (again)
As I very often say – I have an astounding ability to finally realize the extremely obvious. If I have an intellectual guardian angel she probably spends a lot of her time slapping her forehead and going “good grief”. My current brainstorm is on the subject of learning a new habit. I have finally realized [...]
Uses of the truth
I got used last week.
But that’s ok. Here is how it happened.
At the moment I spend part of my time in an environment were there is fear and lack of candour. People feel threatened and powerless and unable to connect to each other. Such situations are anathema to me, they dampen down our fire and [...]
Why do we fall?
Burning up your will-power
I got very interested recently in experiments being done in the field of “ego depletion“. The theory proposes that humans have a limited quantity of “ego” or willpower. When you exercise self-control you use up this resource and will then be less able to persist with other tasks. In the classic experiment of this field [...]
Fitting your frame
Let me tell you a story.
I once ran a team into which was dropped a grumpy and rigid old-school programmer. He was unhappy to be landed with me and I was similarly unhappy that this ugly duckling had been dumped into my budget. Fortunately I had through personal experience one insight that served me very [...]
Rosanna
Sometimes what I need to say seems to obvious. One of the things I am still learning is to say it anyway.
I am a deeply fortunate person. I have a family I love, a cheerful disposition and there are moments in my day which are eternal, where I am breathless with the glory of the [...]
Webcomics show you people growing….
I read a lot of webcomics. I have always loved comics, having been brought up with the Sparky and the Beano. Unlike their squashed-tree cousins, webcomics have almost no threshold. You could turn away from reading this, draw something, scan it and have a webcomic up in ten minutes. This means there are hundreds of [...]
Gentleness is a super-power
There is something that I want to say, somewhat out of the ordinary for this blog, please be patient while I find a way to say it.
I am a scarily cheerful person almost all of the time, particularly on diamond-bright blue-skied winter days like today. Things are actually pretty grim in the Netherlands, where I [...]
My life as a dog
One of the things David Allen says about thinking and focus, is that “it’s not about whether the information is available, it’s about whether you are available to the information”. Forget the nutty, mystical stuff where people think that imagining their dream life will cause it to appear. This is all about what you notice, [...]

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