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07 April 2010 ~ Comments Off

My life as a Dog (again)

My life as a Dog (again)

As I very often say – I have an astounding ability to finally realize the extremely obvious. If I have an intellectual guardian angel she probably spends a lot of her time slapping her forehead and going “good grief”. My current brainstorm is on the subject of learning a new habit. I have finally realized [...]

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27 March 2010 ~ Comments Off

Uses of the truth

Uses of the truth

I got used last week.
But that’s ok. Here is how it happened.
At the moment I spend part of my time in an environment were there is fear and lack of candour. People feel threatened and powerless and unable to connect to each other. Such situations are anathema to me, they dampen down our fire and [...]

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03 March 2010 ~ 1 Comment

Why do we fall?

Why do we fall?

As Bruce Wayne’s father says “So that we can learn to pick ourselves up.”
It is a hard thing to do, perhaps the hardest thing. Coming back for something that really hurts you, really makes you doubt: very hard. But if you can do it, you will be stronger, simply because you know that you can. [...]

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03 July 2009 ~ Comments Off

Burning up your will-power

I got very interested recently in experiments being done in the field of “ego depletion“. The theory proposes that humans have a  limited quantity of “ego” or willpower. When you exercise self-control you use up this resource and will then be less able to persist with other tasks. In the classic experiment of this field [...]

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09 May 2009 ~ Comments Off

Fitting your frame

Let me tell you a story.
I once ran a team into which was dropped a grumpy and rigid old-school programmer. He was unhappy to be landed with me and I was similarly unhappy that this ugly duckling had been dumped into my budget.  Fortunately I had through personal experience one insight that served me very [...]

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18 April 2009 ~ Comments Off

Webcomics show you people growing….

I read a  lot of webcomics. I have always loved comics, having been brought up with the Sparky and the Beano. Unlike their squashed-tree cousins, webcomics have almost no threshold. You could turn away from reading this, draw something, scan it and have a webcomic up in ten minutes. This means there are hundreds of [...]

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15 February 2009 ~ Comments Off

Gentleness is a super-power

There is something that I want to say, somewhat out of the ordinary for this blog, please be patient while I find a way to say it.
I am a scarily cheerful person almost all of the time, particularly on diamond-bright blue-skied winter days like today. Things are actually pretty grim in the Netherlands, where I [...]

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19 November 2008 ~ Comments Off

My life as a dog

One of the things David Allen says about thinking and focus, is that “it’s not about whether the information is available, it’s about whether you are available to the information”.  Forget the nutty, mystical stuff where people think that imagining their dream life will cause it to appear. This is all about what you notice, [...]

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19 November 2008 ~ Comments Off

Time of change

I have not posted in my blog for quite a while, which is strange because I enjoy writing.  I did some thinking and realized that though I still use GTD and coach others about it, I have little need to blog about it: any more than I would blog about cleaning my teeth. I still [...]

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18 April 2008 ~ Comments Off

Personal effectiveness does not mean you suck…

Now if you are going to disagree with someone to make a point, you need to pick someone who’s opinion is worth considering. So I am going to pick on the thoughtful and helpful Merlin Mann.
Now I have been gettingt lots of useful information about how to get yourself moving on things, how to handle forgetfulness and [...]

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